My First Money Memory (and the Crispy Fries That Made Me Cry)

I was about three years old when I staged my first financial protest.

It happened in a parking lot after a long morning of errands. Tired, hungry, and full of preschool-sized drama, I threw myself into full-blown tears with one singular goal: crispy fries from McDonald’s.

“I want McDonald’s!” I sobbed, dragging out every syllable like it was a Broadway audition.

I remember my grandfather shooting my mom a look that said, “You’ve spoiled this child.” My mom snapped right back—something quick and sharp to push off his judgment. I don’t remember her words, but I remember the tension. And I remember how it felt: like spending money on fries when we had food at home was bad. Tied to love, shame, expectations, and power.

I didn’t know it then, but that moment planted a seed. It’s one of my first memories of money.

Kids Are Always Listening—Even When It’s About Money

We don’t always realize it, but our children are picking up money lessons from us long before we ever say money.

They watch how we say yes.
They feel how we say no.
They absorb how we handle disappointment, judgment, guilt, and grace.

What if we were more intentional?

What if we didn’t just manage the moment—but used it as a chance to teach?

Replace the "Not Today" With Something More Empowering

Here are 3 swaps that change the money script for our kids:

These swaps don’t just avoid shame—they invite your kids to be part of the solution. They teach delayed gratification, prioritization, and that their needs aren’t a burden.

That’s Why We Wrote Madeline’s Money Adventure

When my daughter Madeline said she wanted to write a book, I knew we’d self-publish. (She’s impatient like her mama.) What I didn’t know was how powerful it would be to watch her take charge of her vision, her money jars, and her message to other kids: you are capable.

Madeline’s Money Adventure isn’t just a book—it’s an invitation to talk to your kids about money in a way that’s fun, kind, and empowering. No tears required.

Want to Reflect on Your Own Money Habits?

Start with the Magic Number Worksheet from my free resource library. It’s a simple way to see where your money is going and how to make space for the things that matter most—including crispy fries if you still love them. 😉

👉 Download the Magic Number Worksheet